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SapphireMind
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My impression of the conversation:

One side:  She might have been triggered by that song if she was there.
Other side: Ok, so how do we deal with that fairly and evenly?
One side: TRIGGERED, don’t you understand TRIGGERED
Other side: Yes, understood, so let’s figure out how this should be handled
One side: You are heartless, why can’t you understand you are heartless and cruel and have no business being part of our group? 
Other side: Agreed, triggering is bad, but situations can be complex and we need to think through this.
One side: You are so insensitive, how can you say she has no right to ban a song when she’s triggered by it?
Other side:  No, ban that song, totally agree, but how do with handle the issue as a whole?
One side: Why must you insist that song is there and persecute the OP? 

etc. etc. etc.