Comments on: Photos, Names, Mixed Messages

By: crazy diamond

crazy diamond — Sat, 04 Oct 2008 00:09:04 +0000

such sweet news, even this late i wanted to add my congrats. (is it too nosy of me to ask just one question? does he have your freckles or your mustache or your eyes?)

so, anyway, cool, and cool of you to give them some privacy. i will retrain my lenses elsewhere

By: King Of The Budgies

King Of The Budgies — Sat, 27 Sep 2008 20:02:21 +0000

It’s a series of tubes. Back on topic, as much as baby pics excite me, this is most definitely the right decision. And congrats on fatherhood!

By: Roman V.

Roman V. — Fri, 26 Sep 2008 01:01:31 +0000

Honestly though, I can’t believe some people seriously expected names and other personal information to be just dumped onto the net. The Internet is not just something you dump something on. It’s not a big truck. Srsly.

By: Jordan

Jordan — Thu, 25 Sep 2008 17:20:21 +0000

I certainly respect the decision Mr. Coulton, even though I would like to see what kind of babies you produce. Does this one have wings and a prehensile tail? At any rate, I honestly think you’re a better father for attempting to have your children lead a normal life, good for you!

By: Frederick Heath-Renn

Frederick Heath-Renn — Thu, 25 Sep 2008 11:49:02 +0000

@Lex: surely it’s s/people/women/?

By: Cody

Cody — Wed, 24 Sep 2008 22:31:05 +0000

Good job. Now the second you release pictures the first thing thats going to appear is their heads photoshop’d onto robot bodies lol.

By: AverageJon

AverageJon — Wed, 24 Sep 2008 20:25:10 +0000

I’m just happy that your cat doesn’t mind being famous.

By: Andrea

Andrea — Wed, 24 Sep 2008 20:02:31 +0000

@Paul

though if the little one(s) join you at a gig then we will take that as an open invitation to at least take pictures.

Uh, no we won’t…what do you think he’s saying? The munchkins are off limits.

By: simbelmyne

simbelmyne — Wed, 24 Sep 2008 16:31:44 +0000

Aww, songs about babies are fun!
Good choice, I’m not even famous and my kids stay off teh webs. (some days they hate me for it)

Congrats again!

By: Lex

Lex — Wed, 24 Sep 2008 11:25:27 +0000

Quoth Percephene:
“People just love babies and its hard not having a picture to go gooey over!”

s/people/women

By: Betsy

Betsy — Wed, 24 Sep 2008 01:00:21 +0000

Mr. JoCo: THIS.

By: TheFifthSister

TheFifthSister — Tue, 23 Sep 2008 22:52:40 +0000

Glad everyone is doing well and I hope you never run out of coffee!

By: JoAnn in VA

JoAnn in VA — Tue, 23 Sep 2008 22:20:03 +0000

Why be so complex with baby code names? The most obvious, a la Dr Suess and in perfect keeping with the titles of certain collections of songs would be to simply call them Thing One and Thing Two.

By: Percephene

Percephene — Tue, 23 Sep 2008 20:59:53 +0000

I think we all totally understand and respect that! People just love babies and its hard not having a picture to go gooey over!
Perhaps you should just paste a stock image of one as a placeholder for us to squee over!

Again, many congrats and good for you for keeping the family out of it!

By: Mark Gordon

Mark Gordon — Tue, 23 Sep 2008 19:54:33 +0000

I think you’re doing the right thing, though I also don’t see a problem with obviously (hopefully) fake code names that could be used among fans, by analogy to “Hodgmina.” So we can call your daughter Coultina and your son Coultom. Sound good?

By: Paul

Paul — Tue, 23 Sep 2008 19:20:47 +0000

I don’t think anyone here will be criticising you, though if the little one(s) join you at a gig then we will take that as an open invitation to at least take pictures.

for now i guess we’ll have to use miniJoCo1 and 2 or something – hmm maybe a competition for the most JoCo baby names, Chel for a girl maybe?

I hope that any new songs won’t be about nappies or dribble anyway.

ttfn

By: Rob

Rob — Tue, 23 Sep 2008 19:15:59 +0000

C’mon, JoCo. I think I speak for all of us, when I say I understand. Why your family might hesitate, to submit to our demands. Just open up the door. We’ll all come inside. We’re not monsters, well, technically…

By: Lara

Lara — Tue, 23 Sep 2008 18:07:21 +0000

Congrads on your baloney loaf (all babies are Baloney loaves). We promise only to stalk you, not the kids.

By: Cambiata

Cambiata — Tue, 23 Sep 2008 16:19:20 +0000

Of course, Joco, of course. Nobody will love you less because you want to give your family privacy. In fact, from the first time I visited your page I recognized how reticent you were about your family – your bio page says nothing about when you were married or how many kids you have. It’s reasonable and admirable. And nice of you to explain it to us, even.

By: Kilted Dad

Kilted Dad — Tue, 23 Sep 2008 16:18:38 +0000

“they should not have their heads photoshopped onto robot bodies,”

Well of course they shouldn’t. THAT would be silly.

I mean, they already have robot bodies, don’t they?

By: Derek

Derek — Tue, 23 Sep 2008 15:09:12 +0000

You’re absolutely doing the right thing. I’ve always admired how you’ve done a fantastic job keeping your family out of the spotlight. Kudos!

By: barefootorbust

barefootorbust — Tue, 23 Sep 2008 14:18:53 +0000

Good for you JoCo! As much as I would love to see pics of your precious new bundle, the internet is not a good place for family pictures, professional site or no. Though most of us are normal and sane, there are people in the internet who do not have good intentions. It always bugs me to see kids pics up in public forums. You can have pictures available for family and friends without exposing them to potential danger.

That being said…have you been offered a million dollars for the first pics in Star magazine yet??

By: Mr.Nobody

Mr.Nobody — Tue, 23 Sep 2008 04:47:19 +0000

I agree with you JoCo.

To Andrea: Woah. o_o

By: Andrea

Andrea — Tue, 23 Sep 2008 04:36:15 +0000

Oh, you WANTED privacy? Sorry. I guess I shouldn’t have pointed my telephoto lens into your apartment from the building across the street and then sold the images of little Jonathina and Rodolfo EvilGenius Poopypants III to the Enquirer.

I’ll take down the photos from my website, too, though it’s a shame, since your son’s image heals minor rashes and abrasions, WoW addiction and Asperger’s syndrome. And your daughter is awfully cute.

By: john d'arc

john d'arc — Tue, 23 Sep 2008 04:28:53 +0000

could you at least tell us if your son is a Jr. or not? It’s not like we could Google him if his name was also Jonathan Coulton, and not just get you.

By: SmudgeBot

SmudgeBot — Tue, 23 Sep 2008 03:38:54 +0000

Yeah, you gotta keep some of your life to yourself. Too much exposure seems to be all too common these days, with all the so-called “Reality” shows, with camera crews following families around and everybody trying to act “normal”. I don’t understand that crap and I don’t watch them, so if I see a listing for “JoCo Knows Best”, I probably won’t watch it, even though I’m a big fan of your music. Be happy being your kids’ daddy, not their agent. I applaud your responsible decision. I am tapping my arm for more music though. Can you help a guy out?

By: Demetrius

Demetrius — Tue, 23 Sep 2008 02:57:34 +0000

Good decision, JoCo! The young ones have a right to a more or less normal life. Not having a single stuffed animal that isn’t a pony/monkey Frankenstein might make them weird in ways that will require expensive therapy later.

You, however, aren’t off the hook… I look forward to more songs (ostensibly) for or about kids – yours, or otherwise!

By: Roman V.

Roman V. — Tue, 23 Sep 2008 02:39:27 +0000

@MitchO I was just going to use the filler name “JoCoJunior” if it ever came up again.

But yeah, you’re absolutely right, and so far you’ve held a pretty good balance about keeping personal and professional stuff as separate as it needs to be, IMO.

Congrats again.

By: JoAnn in VA

JoAnn in VA — Tue, 23 Sep 2008 00:21:24 +0000

I totally agree with your decision, and hope you get some sleep soon *grin*. I just wish I had known to add an itty bitty baby boy squid to that picture I had done for you…

By: Barstool Prophet

Barstool Prophet — Mon, 22 Sep 2008 21:29:21 +0000

Smart move that’s good to see. Enjoy the time because when they’re little they might step on your toes but as they get big they step on your heart!

By: Stephen S.

Stephen S. — Mon, 22 Sep 2008 19:06:49 +0000

I think you are making a very wise decision.
You are awesome, and I wish you a happy fatherhood.

By: Susie the Southern Geek

Susie the Southern Geek — Mon, 22 Sep 2008 18:59:26 +0000

I totally agree with you – keep what privacy you have as long as you can. And enjoy the little baby toes – they grow up too fast.

My kids were so excited when I told them your wife had another baby – they are looking forward to more kid-friendly songs about robots and doughnuts.

Wishing you all the best!

By: Wayne

Wayne — Mon, 22 Sep 2008 18:56:07 +0000

Nope. Sorry, you gave your rights to family privacy when Strollertown was released under CC. We know what they’re driving, anyway. How am I going to know what name to give my daughter as an homage?

By: MitchO

MitchO — Mon, 22 Sep 2008 18:50:33 +0000

This whole thing left me in a very awkward state with JoCopedia. I consciously chose not to add the kid’s birth to “This Day In JoCo” , but had to debate whether or not to add the explanation of why you had to drop out of Masters of Song Fu (I eventually just briefly explained it).

Won’t someone please think of the Moderators?!~

By: Jesse

Jesse — Mon, 22 Sep 2008 18:22:06 +0000

I didn’t think it was possible to respect you anymore than I already do, but that post just did it. You are a wonderful person and the respect you wish will be bestowed ten fold.

By: Billiam

Billiam — Mon, 22 Sep 2008 18:20:05 +0000

Congrats JoCo and as Bob above says, I think you’re definitely doing the right thing when it comes to privacy. As fans, we already have you at a distinct disadvantage: we know so much about you through your blog and your songs, and you know next to nothing about us. Keeping your kids safe is definitely a #1 priority.

I mean, I love kids as much as the next guy, but I just don’t think I could eat a whole one, ya know?

Was a real blast meeting you at PAX!

By: Bob

Bob — Mon, 22 Sep 2008 18:15:36 +0000

Congrats JoCo! Whee indeed! Your thoughts on the privacy issue are completely reasonable and I’m with ya 100%

Must be hard to be so well-liked

By: Paul R. Potts

Paul R. Potts — Mon, 22 Sep 2008 18:07:12 +0000

It’s definitely the right thing to do. We’re just sad that you don’t invite the whole internetz over for Sunday brunch and let us meet your wife, poke through your apartment, paw all your guitars, tickle your babies, and see what’s really in your medicine cabinet.

Did I mention it was definitely the right thing to do?

By: MarcyT

MarcyT — Mon, 22 Sep 2008 17:47:09 +0000

I respect your decision and think you’re very smart to make it.

By: CC

CC — Mon, 22 Sep 2008 17:06:35 +0000

Good for you! I’m with you on that decision. Keep your private life private. Looking forward to the next song. Keep rockin!!! …but be quiet, the baby’s sleeping. Don’t forget to get him some 25.

By: Farris

Farris — Mon, 22 Sep 2008 16:50:03 +0000

Do not encourage JC to be a baby dangler… It’s his decision.

By: Bob

Bob — Mon, 22 Sep 2008 16:11:08 +0000

Too cute.

By: Dave

Dave — Mon, 22 Sep 2008 16:07:29 +0000

Good for you. Cradle, music, life: is there ANYTHING you can’t soft rock?

By: Shopmonkey Chris

Shopmonkey Chris — Mon, 22 Sep 2008 15:54:53 +0000

You could always go the Micheal Jackson route, and make your kids wear bizarre “Eyes Wide Shut” style masks whenever they went anywhere.

Hmmm… Now that I see it written down, I guess that’s not such a good idea afterall.

By: Luke M

Luke M — Mon, 22 Sep 2008 15:38:00 +0000

Good decision. Enjoy!